When they tell you that they don’t want these things they are lying! Early 40’s with small children – although these women are closer to your age (not really) they are at a completely different stage.
They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner.
Here are five reasons why some men love to date separated women and why these women must be on their guard that the signals they send are, in fact, bringing them the dating prospects they want. The one who began having her very own sexual revolution with guy after guy the minute she was out of her parents’ sight? After spending a long time in a marriage, one plagued with problems as evidenced by its imminent end, separation often becomes the time for women to rediscover a sexual identity that may have been repressed for years. Female sexuality should never be confused with promiscuity or cheapened morals. Great for a guy who is tired of a population of women questioning him on a first date if his taxi light is on or when it will be, and the ticking sound of his dinner date’s biological clock. What outsiders may see as an unlikely pairing could actually become a satisfying relationship because we don’t know always know what we are missing until we find it. At the other extreme are women eager to head back down the aisle.
Well, some separated women aren’t that far off the mark. Separation provides a perfect opportunity to search. Marriage is what they know best, and they are anxious to get it right the second, third or umpteenth time around, despite proclamations of independence and a love of single life. Right Now, the guy who attentively listens and tells them everything they want to hear, the guy who is too good to be true simply because he is.
They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you.
From my experience there are few men who are looking to date their contemporaries.
We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.