Keep in mind, however, that many guys are more expressive in email than in person.If Motor mouth Mike turns out to be the strong, silent type in person, it doesn't necessarily spell disaster.Don't be a know it all, and don't talk about things that are of no interest to the person you are meeting. Do not get overly excited that you have "X" number of matches online or through any other venue. Take time and find out more about these "so called" matches.
Now you would have never given him your home or work number because you always have guys call a voice mail or your smart ring first for safety.
But some lonely night you pick up the phone and call him. Once he has your phone number, he might be able to get your address. Always press *67 before you call to disable his/her caller ID.
Your objective is to find out as much as you can before you waste time and money in pursuit.
There are precautions you can take to make life safer: An important lesson: You may think this advice is overly cautious. I have had one member that wrote me to take her off of the matchmaking system because she was accosted on a first meeting as she was getting into her car. She was a smart cookie , managed to get this man off of her, get his license plate and call the police.
This was someone with several years of karate experience that came in handy.