The hypocrisy of the whole situation is that women don’t have the problem that men have. And their involvement was not just that of a spectator. It was a very active, sweaty, heavy-breathing and funny face-making moment. Now these women and children get punished for something two people were involved in. Sometimes temporary pleasure leads to a lifetime of unplanned responsibility. We know what towning does, and Aids is just one of them.They will marry a guy with a child without much pause (yes, I am aware of the generalisation I am making. And we know how many of us can’t stand responsibility, even when we’ve planned for it. (To get an explanation on what "towning" is, please see this blog). It is about the father who still roams the streets. Many of us know what it’s like not to grow up with absent fathers.
I planned on keeping my married name, raising my 2-month-old daughter alone, and living out some kind of disservice.
As a mom, you’re wired to put your children before yourself. But like they tell you on airplanes, you can’t help anyone with their oxygen mask until you put your own on.
You read books on how to give birth and how to breastfeed, but learning how to date when you have a child seems much more complicated.
When my ex-husband and I separated, I thought I’d be single for the rest of my life.
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