It is important that your energy be positive and slightly higher than that of the set.
These openers are pretty simple and straightforward, and a lot of people use them. Heck, it’s probably more important than your opener. Instead, turn, like now that the opener is done you’re going to go back to your friends.
All you do is notice something interesting about the room, or her, and share it. Take one half step away from them, then turn back and say, “So how do you guys know each other?
So let’s explore some of the fundamentals of what you should say when you open a new set.
Many new students to PUA hate the idea of using a canned opener.
Right) and that’s a great thing to observe because it segues right into talking about the differences between men and women, which is always a good subject for conversation when flirting.
If you have cold-reading skills, this is a great place to apply them, because a great, accurate observation about her is a powerful DHV spike in addition to a strong opener.
Saying something like “You look great in that dress,” or “Wow, the club sure is crowded tonight,” doesn’t qualify. Simply say that you heard about it and are interested in it – have a conversation about your opener with her!