But a poor or obvious observation will get you blown out of the set unless she already decided she wanted you to open her before you said a single word. You use them on people who don’t work at the venue. Rather, find two or three which you feel comfortable with, and get them down cold so you have them “on tap.” You should be able to find something in one of those categories which is congruent with who you are presenting yourself as. The girl is offering you a new subject to engage her on.
A good example is: “Hey, two beers over here, please” These are very effective if the mistake is plausible, and the target hasn’t heard them before. A common one is to take note of some entirely appropriate activity the set is engaged in, and tell them it’s not allowed. For shame, drinking isn’t allowed here.” The goal is to get them laugh, or, even better, to engage in a role-play with you. These openers involve simply walking up to a girl and saying, “Hi, you looked so beautiful over here I had to come up and say hello.” Or, “You look interesting, I’d like to get to know you.” For these openers to work, you must already be perceived as high value. Often, less is more: if you know ten openers, you’ll waste time trying to figure out which one to use. A lot of beginning PUAs are terrified that their target will recognize their opener, or ask a question like, “Are you a pick-up artist?
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He has this old box of letters and photos from her. By engaging the set emotionally, the set will focus on the conversation, rather than you – giving you plenty of time to display some value before they realize that this is a pickup.
That makes a good opinion opener probably the best possible opener. Lovedrop has been known to walk up to a set and say, “Hey, what was that movie ‘Nobody puts Baby in the corner?
They’re sure it will sound false, or they’re worried about being called out for it.
But herein lies one of the great counter-intuitive truths of pickup: a good, rehearsed canned opener sounds more original than most of what you can come up spontaneously. If you were writing an essay, do you think you’d do better if you spend time working on it and polishing it, or if you just said whatever you came up with in the moment?
PUA: “So my buddy has this new girlfriend, they’ve been dating for a couple of months. She doesn’t just want him to get rid of it, she wants him to burn the box.” Now, this is a tried-and-true opinion opener, which you can customize and make your own, but let’s look at why it works so you can use it as a template to develop your own opinion openers.