"People have elaborate laundry lists of qualities they think they want in a partner, and they like online dating profiles that fit this laundry list," Eastwick said.
Serious relationships are usually not established overnight-love takes time!
It’s natural to be excited and eager when you meet a beautiful lesbian you are falling for, but don’t rush into something intense too quickly.
However, don’t mistake your date’s eagerness to get to know you with their interest in your ex, your best friend, or your daddy issues.
You aren’t having drinks with a female friend, you’re spending time with a potential love match, and sharing too much too soon can cause them to run for the hills.
Instead, think of creative, meaningful dates you can take your crush on, focused on truly getting to know her outside of the bar or party scene.