If someone truly respects you and your choice they will never make you feel bad or guilty for choosing not to have sex.Even if it's a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or a friend, sex of any kind without . If you abstain from sex with someone you are dating there is no need to worry about contracting an STD or getting pregnant.
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Choosing to not have sex while dating allows you to know that the person you are dating is with you for YOU.
They are not just interested in having sex with you. You will never feel used or exploited for choosing not to have sex.
Hell, I've heard my upstairs or downstairs neighbor going at it and it's frustrating. Newly out of a 22 year, emotional-abusive marriage, I decided I still wanted a man in my life, so I searched from one to the other, and yes, had sex because they all told me "we need to know if we are compatible." This last guy I was with, a mexican, still wants sex with me and I recently decided that, based on my faith, I would rather not participate in sin anymore. The man I connected with emotionally was charming, cheeky and funny online, didn't get sleazy at all during our conversations or chats, and when we met, asked me if I wanted to "give things a go". We didn't have sex on the first date although we both wanted to because I said I wanted to take things slowly.
Unfortunately, he takes it like a personal rejection, so it has caused a rift between us. I should have listened to my instincts because the next time we saw each other, we had sex, several times, and it was GREAT!
i like having something to build up or look forward to. Dont worry about weather it is strange or not, only you can live your life, so do what feels best for you. i mean the fools who thing its wrong for people not to have control over their own bodys and what comes out should **** off. I intend to abstain for 3 months, keep meeting men online and hopefully go on some more dates and see what happens. If your too keen your a typical male who only wants sex.