Choosing to not have sex while dating allows you to know that the person you are dating is with you for YOU.
They are not just interested in having sex with you. You will never feel used or exploited for choosing not to have sex.
I have enocuntered men who i have thought "woah he is hot this is gonna be BANGIN", & after i was like "meh. With all due respect to people who choose abstinence, i dont think that men & women who enjoy their sexuality are lesser beings. and who says she cant just go to the clinicwhats so wrong. its our **** and our choice, go impose your will on some one else you savage ***holes "YES, FOR ME IT STILL EXIST. Personally i like the way dating used to be where you'd take things slow and get to know each other.
I guess its because people are told guys only want one thing, so when a guy doesnt seem to want it then their must be something wrong.
But its not that he doesnt want it, cbecause he does its just that he wants to wait for the right time.
i like having something to build up or look forward to. Dont worry about weather it is strange or not, only you can live your life, so do what feels best for you. i mean the fools who thing its wrong for people not to have control over their own bodys and what comes out should **** off. I intend to abstain for 3 months, keep meeting men online and hopefully go on some more dates and see what happens. If your too keen your a typical male who only wants sex.
I personally think that making a huge commitment to marriage when you dont even know if you are sexually compatible is not wise, not saying you have to have sex right off the bat. either ill have an army of my own children or thier is always stair cases all over the place. stay the **** away from my wifes **** my kids ****s and all of my familys ****s.. And if you wait your sexuality is called in to question or they think your not interested.
Not having to worry about these issues can take a lot of stress off of a relationship.