maybe you'll listen to me because I've so recently been there.
With no further ado, here's what I wish some guy would have sat down and said to me while I was in bachelor mode. " This mysterious thing isn't too bad if you follow several easy steps.
Which brings me to the first important point – in order to be a leader, you have to actually be going somewhere.
If as a guy, you know who you are, and remain confident in that, you can look for someone who will come with you.
Personal history bit: I was chumming around with some friends of my wife--4 Marines, all pals.