The whole point is to make connections and meet new people, after all.
So, once two people swipe right, and mutually opt to initiate a connection, they’re added to each other’s “hive” of connections. You can extend the connection for an additional 24 hours.
Like Tinder, you can only talk to each other if you’ve mutually “liked” each other’s profiles.
And if you’re connected, and you’re really trying to get noticed, you can send a “charm” to her inbox, which lets her know you’re interested.
The Grade is the free, “female-friendly” response to this problem.