“I have a friend who is possibly more than a friend after we crossed the line, but he's also definitely not my boyfriend or anything close to that, so we have a really confusing relationship where neither of us actually knows how the other feels." As for the whole friends with benefits conundrum?
Unless it’s a short-term, contractual agreement (“thou shalt not acquire romantic feelings”), it’s a turn-of-phrase that’s best left to rom coms, advised the dating experts.
Imagine you’re on the best date of your life with the person you suspect is The One.
The sexual chemistry is palpable, but you’re looking for a long-term thing — not just a hookup.
Should you jump into bed with him or her as soon as you’re alone?