These superficial references usually indicate the tropical ephemeris position of the Earth's central Sun on their birthday, which has nothing to do with relationships!
Please refer to the Jyotisha kundali to locate the rashi and nakshatra-pada of Chandra * Moon.
But what I am talking about is something specific to Jyotisha, that is not connected to western tropical astrology, is not"what people usually say is their"zodiac" sign", and must be done with Indian-style Jyotisha calculations.
I am glad that my viewpoint helped to confirm your intuition about your current partnership.
Alignment of Nakshatra Chandra does not promise a fairy-tale marriage free of disappointment, disagreement, or delusion.