Dating a guy but no chemistry


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I actually had quite a nice time--despite being in the throes of that nasty head cold, so that, by the end of the night, I had a nice pile of snotty cocktail napkins on the table, next to my glass. He was interesting, sweet, paid me a few really nice compliments in a way that didn't feel uncomfortable or corny, and I genuinely liked him A LOT as a person. At the end of the date, he asked if I'd be up for a second.

I said sure--because the prospective of hanging out again REALLY did seem nice.

So--in keeping with my belief that I should be guided by The Golden Rule in dating, and all things--I sent him an email Monday saying: "As much as I enjoyed our time together, I didn't feel that huge, crazy spark--for whatever lamentable and inexplicable reason. I happened to be checking out the next chapter of HOW TO LOVE LIKE A HOT CHICK-- the book that gave us those suggestions about single-person experiences every chick should have--which has been residing on my desk these past few weeks (alongside the two other books I'm reading--WAR PEACE and WATERMARK).

But I'd truly like to get to know you better, as a friend, if you're up for that."Sean O'Sean wrote back to say he HAD felt a spark, and that he didn't think it would be very productive or comfortable to hang again, under the circumstances. Should I have just shut up and gone through with another date? And I noticed a section titled "How to Tell If You Have Chemistry." The authors went on to list with 3 "chemistry cues" ... When you first meet a guy and are in the initial stages of dating, pay attention to what you say to your girlfriends ...

In truth, he is neither pickly nor pumpernickly ...