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Then he cut to the chase: "Is it OK for me to date? In fact, if I weren't married, I'd respond." The woman behind him — an impeccably groomed retired teacher with gorgeous red hair — confided that she'd just been abandoned by her husband of 39 years. I just want dinner, a movie and a little conversation with a man." Glancing at her cool-looking beads and earrings, I was tempted to ask her to accessorize me. "While you're at it," I went on, "tell everyone you know that you want to be fixed up." "That sounds scary." I couldn't argue with that. It was for me too, but the guys who delivered my Chinese food — the only ones I saw when I was newly divorced — weren't in the dating pool. But not taking one is even scarier." The lovely woman looked unconvinced, but I forged ahead.
" I hesitated, because that "for better or for worse / in sickness and in health" part of the marriage vows was echoing through my mind, and I'm a big fan of loyalty at all costs. " He said he lived in a small town and did not know any women. "He told me he wanted to be alone." She rolled her eyes, then flashed a nervous smile. I suggested she might find kindred spirits at events or on trips for educators, or simply by pursuing whatever activities and hobbies she loves. "Go out to eat in restaurants — alone, not with a friend. I had to leave my comfort zone just to come up to you." "But see? Now just keep going." I told her she was pretty, engaging and easy to talk to, and that men would find her likewise. "Go out for breakfast or lunch." I have no doubt she will.
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But as I looked into his eyes and listened to him speak, I saw a kind, down-to-earth person. "Even if you meet no one," I pointed out, "you'll have fun. And the attendees around her seemed to like the idea, too — fingers crossed that they put it into action!