Don't think of all the reasons why meeting someone won't happen - focus on the opportunities all around for it to happen for you!
Halloweeen/costume parties Pretty much any costume is an excellent conversation starter. Beaches/poolside You've already seen each other in a bathing suit. Make them feel welcome by starting up a conversation!
While there is no way to measure precisely how many of those are straight, romantically unattached men, it is safe to say there are many millions who fall into that category. Driving ranges Golf courses are a big investment of time and money. Language classes Asking an attractive guy to practice Spanish with you? Walking your dog (or him walking his) is another great way to meet men. Yoga studios Generally female-dominated, but that's precisely why some men take up yoga to begin with. Strike up a conversation while you're choosing your movie or buying your popcorn. Hotel bars/restaurants Maybe he's just visiting, but maybe not - and patrons tend to be chattier because there are so many solo diners.
They are literally all around us, and yet most single women are at a loss as to where to meet them. Improvisation classes Any group activity with the potential for discomfort/embarrassment/laughter will bond you. Driving ranges, on the other hand, are much easier, cheaper and tend to be more social. Specialty retail stores Hardware stores are famous for being pickup spots, but they're not the only stores where men shop! Find out if those pretzels he's buying are any good. The mechanic You're both sitting there waiting for your oil change anyway - you might as well chat. Commuter trains/buses At the very least you have some geography (and work schedule) in common.
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