Some people in their 20s and 30s don’t even have computers.
Some people with queer networks – which are much smaller – seem to have built them in person rather than online, which is a bit alien to me.
There are specialist networks for kinksters and goths and metalheads and doctors and ‘uniform dating’ and for people of every conceivable subculture or religion or ethnic background, although some of those aren’t exactly bi-friendly even if they have a girls-dating-girls option for lesbian-identified folks.
But queer-friendly online dating is kinda self-selecting – you’re unlikely to meet someone, feel a spark and then have them declare they’re het if you meet them in a space explicitly dedicated to women interested in dating women.
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