Let him know you are interested – otherwise he may overlook you and move on to a different girl! Online dating gives you far more guys to choose from so you can ‘shop’ for the partner you’ve always dreamed of!”“You’ve got to be aggressive when it comes to finding a husband,” says yet another book on helping single young women find their husbands.
You can read books on how to strike up a conversation with a guy, get him to notice you, and increase your odds of him falling in love with you, and even books with tips on how to subtly push him toward a marriage commitment if he’s dragging his feet.
Well, I’d like to offer you some tips of my own on how to find a godly marriage partner.
After all, I was going to church, dating “Christian” guys, and committed to saving sex until marriage. Even though God wasn’t the centerpiece of my daily life, I assumed that I was still on good terms with Him. The thought of giving God complete control of my life, especially my love life, was a bit daunting.
But the fact that I kept getting my heart broken again and again finally made me wonder if I was doing something wrong. I didn’t really mind obeying certain Christian guidelines for dating, as long as I could still hold the pen and write the story myself.
These tips don’t involve witty conversation starters or learning how to seduce a guy without acting like you are.